\\ the librarian \\ acceptance \\

american apparel blouse, asos knit (seen here) and rings,

guy gil earrings, burberry shades (seen here),

vintage skirt, castro heels 

in my teens, most of my clothes were black

no, i wasn't emo

i had an eating dosorder which made me gain a lot (!) of weight

so i went for the obvious solution

and wore only black

nowadays, it's hard for me to buy black items

because i feel that for me it's the obvious solution

that also brings back some icky memories

my "obsession" now is actually black and white

(with emphasis on the white)

because that combo is always "right" and crisp and dressed up

but i do try to wear color as much as possible

since it's so much happier

today i went for the librarian look

i love the buttoned-up-all-the-way-blouse look

it's such a goody-goody look

but it's super sexy

i'm a firm believer that not showing off your boobs

could be way sexier than wearing a low cleavage

(not that i don't wear lower cleavages ever,

but usually i prefer sticking to this look)

i also used to have an issue with my curves

but now i fully accept them

in all their glory :) 

i got these guy gil earrings a few month back

and didn't find too many opportunities to wear them

(since i usually go with big necklaces

and wearing both a big necklace and big earrings is too much)

in fact, i built this entire look around them

 (but of course i had to put in a touch of black and white

in the form of my lovely burberry shades)

so which one are you?

a librarian? a va-va-va-voom sex goddess?

an all-black-all-the-time type? or perhaps a color-blocking addict?

whichever it is, i hope you can accept yourself!

xoxo